Finding the Right Words for Condolence & Sympathy

When someone you know loses a loved one, it can be hard to know what to say. You want to show you care, but finding the right words is difficult. This website is here to help you find simple, kind, and heartfelt messages to share your support.

What are you looking for?

Find the perfect message for any situation. Start by exploring our most popular categories:

• All Condolence Messages - Our complete collection of 100+ messages for any occasion.
• Short Messages (for Texts) - Simple and brief messages perfect for a quick text or note.
• Sympathy & Comfort Quotes - Inspiring quotes about loss, grief, and remembering loved ones.

Saying "Sorry For Your Loss"

"I'm so sorry for your loss" is a simple and honest way to show you care. It's perfectly okay to say. Sometimes, you may want to add a little more. Here are a few examples:

• "I'm so sorry for your loss. Thinking of you during this difficult time."
• "Words can't describe how sorry I am for your loss. Please know I'm here for you."
• "We are so sorry to hear about your loss. Your family is in our thoughts."

You can find many more examples in our full list of condolence messages.

Tips for Writing a Kind Message

When you write your message, remember these simple tips. The goal is to show you care.

1. Keep it Simple

You don't need to write a long letter. A few honest sentences are often best. A simple "I'm thinking of you" can mean the world to someone who is grieving.

2. Be Sincere

Speak from the heart. If you knew the person who passed away, you could share a nice memory. For example: "I'll always remember how your father's smile could light up a room."

3. Offer Help

Grieving people are often overwhelmed. Instead of saying "let me know if you need anything," try offering something specific. For example: "I can help walk the dog this week," or "I can bring over dinner on Tuesday."

What to Write on Flowers?

Sending flowers is a beautiful way to show sympathy. The card attached is usually small, so a short message is best. Here are some ideas for your flower condolence message:

• "Thinking of you and your family."
• "With our deepest sympathy."
• "In loving memory."
• "Sent with love and remembrance."
• "May these flowers bring a moment of peace."

For more ideas, see our list of short condolence messages, which are perfect for flower cards.

Light a Candle in Memory

Lighting a candle is a timeless way to honor someone. The flame represents hope and the memory of a loved one's spirit. It's a quiet, beautiful symbol of support.

As a modern way to show you care, you can also light a free virtual candle on our memorial page. It's a peaceful way to share your respects online.