100+ Heartfelt Condolence Messages

Finding the right words to express your sympathy can be difficult. We've gathered over 100 of the most heartfelt and appropriate condolence messages to help you offer comfort and support to someone who is grieving. This guide is organized by situation to help you find the perfect message.

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For a Friend

When a friend is grieving, your support means the world. These messages are warm and personal.

For the Loss of a Parent

Losing a parent is a profound loss. These messages offer specific comfort for the loss of a mother or father.

Hands offering sympathy and comfort

For the Loss of a Father

For the Loss of a Mother

For a Coworker or Colleague

Expressing sympathy in a professional setting should be sincere and respectful.

For an Unexpected or Tragic Loss

When a loss is sudden, it can be hard to find any words at all. These messages acknowledge the shock and offer support.

Religious & Faith-Based Messages

For those who find comfort in faith, these messages offer spiritual solace.

A single candle burning in the dark for a memorial

How to Write and Personalize Your Own Message

Using one of our messages is a great start. Making it personal is even better. Here is a simple formula:

  1. Acknowledge the Loss: Start with a simple expression of sorrow. (e.g., "I was so sorry to hear about...")
  2. Share a Fond Memory: If you knew the person, share a short, positive memory. (e.g., "I'll always remember how kind they were.")
  3. Offer Specific Help: Instead of "Let me know if you need anything," offer something concrete. (e.g., "I can help with meals next week.")

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