100+ Heartfelt Condolence Messages
Finding the right words to express your sympathy can be difficult. We've gathered over 100 of the most heartfelt and appropriate condolence messages to help you offer comfort and support to someone who is grieving. This guide is organized by situation to help you find the perfect message.
For a Friend
When a friend is grieving, your support means the world. These messages are warm and personal.
- I can't imagine what you must be feeling right now, but I want you to know that I am just a phone call away. My heartfelt condolences.
- In this tough time in your life, may our friendship, sympathy, and heartfelt condolences bring you comfort.
- Hearing about your loss has deeply saddened me. You are not alone, and I am here for you.
- We lost a great person, but the universe received a new beautiful star. My condolences to you and your family.
- Remembering your wonderful and gentle soul will forever remain in our hearts. May they rest in peace.
For the Loss of a Parent
Losing a parent is a profound loss. These messages offer specific comfort for the loss of a mother or father.
For the Loss of a Father
- Your father will be terribly missed. He was loved by all of us and will be cherished in our memories forever. Our condolences.
- Despite the loss of the physical presence of your father, we know that he is watching over you.
- I will never forget his kindness. May he rest in peace, and may your family find the strength to bear this great pain.
- My condolences on the passing of your father. You and your family are in my heart and mind.
For the Loss of a Mother
- A mother is the most precious being on earth. Nothing can fill the void created by her loss. My heart goes out to you.
- I am truly sorry to hear of the loss of your mother. Please accept our condolences and may our prayers help comfort you.
- May fond memories of your mother bring you comfort during this hard time in your life. My heart and prayers go out to you and your family.
- Your mother was a great woman. She will be truly missed and will always be remembered.
For a Coworker or Colleague
Expressing sympathy in a professional setting should be sincere and respectful.
- We are all so sorry for your loss. Our thoughts are with you and your family.
- Words cannot express our sorrow. The office won't be the same without them. They will be missed.
- Thinking of you and your family during this difficult time. Please accept my sincere condolences.
- We are deeply saddened by this news. Please know that your colleagues are here to support you.
For an Unexpected or Tragic Loss
When a loss is sudden, it can be hard to find any words at all. These messages acknowledge the shock and offer support.
- I was so shocked and saddened to hear this news. Please know I am thinking of you.
- We are deeply pained, and words are of no help in expressing the sorrow we feel at this moment. Sincere condolences.
- No one can prepare you for a loss; it comes like a swift wind. Take comfort in knowing that so many people are here for you.
- Words fall short of expressing my sorrow. Please accept my heartfelt condolences.
Religious & Faith-Based Messages
For those who find comfort in faith, these messages offer spiritual solace.
- May God give you the peace that you seek. My deepest sympathies go out to you and your family.
- I pray that our Lord brings you and your family much-needed peace during this sad time.
- May the love and mercy of our Lord be bestowed upon you and your family during this unfortunate time. My most sincere condolences.
- When we lose a loved one here on earth, we gain an angel in heaven who watches over us.
- May our Lord bless and comfort you and your family during this time of grief.
- I extend my deepest sympathies to you and your family. May their soul be at peace with our Heavenly Father.
How to Write and Personalize Your Own Message
Using one of our messages is a great start. Making it personal is even better. Here is a simple formula:
- Acknowledge the Loss: Start with a simple expression of sorrow. (e.g., "I was so sorry to hear about...")
- Share a Fond Memory: If you knew the person, share a short, positive memory. (e.g., "I'll always remember how kind they were.")
- Offer Specific Help: Instead of "Let me know if you need anything," offer something concrete. (e.g., "I can help with meals next week.")
Explore Our Other Guides
If you're looking for something different, our other collections may help:
- For shorter messages perfect for texts, see our short condolence messages.
- To find inspiring words about grief and healing, browse our collection of sympathy quotes.